Terminally-ill teen with agonizingly-sensitive skin defies doctors to live to 19 – Metro.co.uk

Posted: May 9, 2020 at 6:50 am

Marky Jaquez, 19, has recessive dystrophic epidermolysis bullosa, a condition found in fewer than one in one million newborns. (Picture: Melissa Jaquez/Metro.co.uk)

A teenager whose rare skin disorder means that even the slightest touch leaves him in extreme pain has defied doctors predictions to live to adulthood. Marky Jaquez, from Wichita, Kansas, cannot hug his parents, wear clothes or even walk because any friction causes layers of skin to peel away from his body.

Wheelchair-bound, Marky, 19, has never been able to walk because the ground would shred his feet like a cheese grater and must be covered head-to-toe in bandages to protect his fragile skin from tearing. He has recessive dystrophic epidermolysis bullosa, a condition found in an estimated one in one million newborns that often leads to life-threatening skin infections and even cancer.

The illness is caused by a faulty gene, passed onto children by parents. Tragically, Markys brother Carlos was born with it too, and died aged just 14. Doctors warned Markys parents he was unlikely to live beyond the age of 11, but he defied that grim prediction and will celebrate his 20th birthday later this year.

His mom, Melissa Jaquez, 40, said: Marky only has one layer of skin and because of his genetic makeup, the skin has no way of anchoring itself the body. Any form of touch or friction means his skins just tears away.

Its world shattering to think I will lose both of my boys to this and I dont want to think about what life will be like afterwards. I feel like my purpose in life is to give Mary the best life I can for the time that I have him.

I am not able to hug my son because any friction just causes his skin to come away and tear right off. It causes him excruciating pain and I feel so much guilt, but theres nothing I can do to help him.

But despite all of this he is a very happy and joyful boy and he amazes me every single day. Hes an inspiration and proves to everyone that you can keep going with whatever youre going through, no matter how bad it is.

Marky is the youngest of three brothers born to healthcare worker, Melissa. Eldest son Michael is 24, with Carlos dying of heart failure caused by the skin condition in 2015. Marky and Carlos, who would be 21 this year, were both born with the same condition after inheriting a faulty gene from their parents.

Melissa said doctors suspect both she and the boys father carry the faulty gene that causes the genetic mutation. Although both are unaffected themselves, they have an estimated 25% chance of having a child born with recessive dystrophic epidermolysis bullosa. Melissa has since split up with Marky and Carlos father neither of whom knew they carried the faulty gene until Carlos was born, she said.

Melissa said she became aware of the risks involved with having a child after Carlos was born, but claims she was told by a clinician that the chance of her having a second child with the same condition would be less than 1%.

Melissa said: I lost Carlos to the condition because his heart just gave up. His body was in a constant battle to repair his wounds and that took its toll eventually.

His condition was much more progressive than Markys. He got real bad, real quick and by the end could not even breathe on his own.

My pregnancy with Marky was unplanned, but when I got pregnant I was told the chance of me having another baby with the same condition is 1%. They said having two children with it is unheard of.

Marky was born with the most severe type of epidermolysis bullosa meaning he was delivered without skin on his hands, feet and chest because because of the friction of childbirth.

Ever since Marky was little, Melissa, who is now married to Marcos, 30, has had to spend up to three hours a day covering his skin in protective bandages and cleaning open wounds to prevent infection.

She has said every day of motherhood so far has felt like a battle and admits she has struggled to have a normal mother and son relationship with Marky, because of his condition.

Every day is such a massive challenge for us. I struggle with the grief of knowing that when I walk into my sons room in a morning, we cant have fun. I dont get to do the normal things that a mom and a son does.

Instead when I go into his room I know I have to cause him pain and spend two hours doing his bandages. That does give me a lot of anxiety and guilt.

Taking his bandages off does cause excruciating pain. We have to soak his skin every day to soothe his wounds and give him pain medication. Its incredibly upsetting for me.

Whilst there is no cure for epidermolysis bullosa and Marky is highly likely to sadly one day lose his life to the condition, Melissa is hopefully he will survive for several more years.

He has been selected to take part in experimental treatment to create genetically modified skin stem cells that can slow down the effects of the progressive disease. The family plan to travel to Stamford Hospital, Connecticut, later this year to undergo the treatment.

Melissa and Marcos work opposite shifts and have a carer who comes to help look after Marky for three hours each day. Melissa has paid tribute to her amazing son, who she believes can go on to live for many happy years, despite the predictions of doctors.

She said: The treatment at Stamford could add several years to his life. It will reduce the pain and make it easier for his body to cope.

We have tried for that treatment for years, so were thrilled.

Marky has always been an incredibly happy boy and he has just got on with it, without ever moaning or saying why me. Ive had messages from people all over the world to say Marky has inspired them.

Hes an amazing human being and he makes me so proud.

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