Caroline, 11, Elizabeth, 3, Jon Thomas, 13 and James Christopher Allums, 20, do everything as a family. James Christopher and Elizabeth both have a rare medical condition. Their mother, Ellen Allums, said they all go through the process together and support each other with faith and love.(Photo: Courtesy)

Learning that your child has a rare, life-threatening illness is difficult for any family. Everything changes. One family learned that two of their children share the same rare blood disorder.

"That news that we heard was the worst news that we could hear, but it was the best thing that's ever happened to us. It really changed our perspective. It changed our priorities," Chris Allums said.

"We're no longer the same people we were," Ellen Allums said.

Ellen and Chrishave four childrenJames Christopher, 20,Jon Thomas, 13,Caroline,11, andElizabeth, 3.

James Christopher and Elizabeth have Fanconi anemia, a disease that affects the bone marrow's ability to produce blood. Bone marrow or blood stem cell transplants are considered the best treatments, andthey have not yet found a match for either child.

James Christopher was diagnosed 12 years ago and told he had about 18 monthsto live. The family was told he must received a bone marrow transplant.

"We immediately decided that, first of all, we're going to pray and expect a miracle and grow our faith, and next, we're going to try and see if we can find him a bone marrow match and help others along the way, see how many lives that we can affect, that we can save both spiritually and physically," Ellen said.

More than 16,000 people have been added to the worldwide bone marrow registry as a result of drives held on behalf of the Allums. Ellen said they know of at least 41 lives that have been saved because of those efforts, and they're asking more people to commit to donate.

'Looking for a double miracle'

Ellen said a doctor said someone with FA can be like a duck gliding on the water the surface appearance is calm, but people can't see all the effort that goes into staying in motion.

It has a variety of symptoms such as fatigueand can lead to bone marrow or organ failure. Ellen and Chris said FA patients are 500 times more likely to develop some cancers, such as leukemia. James Christopher is subject to constant screenings.

The disease is genetic. According to the National Organization for Rare Disorders, the incidence rate is 1 in 136,000 births. Ellen said her children are two ofsix in Louisiana affected by FA.

Elizabeth's blood counts have been OK, but doctors have said James Christopher has an immediate need for a transplant. DNA needs to be close to an exact match, and many families find a relative who can donate.Elizabeth is a 100 percent match, but she's ineligible because of her FA.

One donor, once found, could help both.A bone marrow transplant won't cure someone with FA, but it can help prolong life.

"Just because you're having to wait doesn't mean the miracle's not going to come. We've been waiting 12 years, but we still have faith that that miracle's coming. Just because it hasn't happened doesn't mean it's not going to. The timing needs to be right," Ellen said. "In our lives, we're looking for an even greater miracle because we're looking for a double miracle, with two children."

FA patients can require blood and platelet transfusions, after which they may become dependent and need additional rounds, which would require a bone marrow transplant quickly.

James Christopher received his first blood transfusion three weeks ago.

"Chris gave. His daddy gave blood to him, and we felt like it was his heavenly father and his earthly father that gave him that blood, and now we're praying and believing that he never has to receive it again," Ellen said.

She said they've dealt with some scary bleeding issues "like Niagara Falls," and James Christopher has almost lost his life a few times. His parents call him a survivor, a warrior. He gets up and stays active daily, even with low blood counts that doctors thinkwould cause fatigue.

"I love to prove doctors wrong. If they give me a boundary, I want to cross it, definitely, when it comes to that," he said. He likes to tell people "keep calm and carry on," like the World War II posters.

Every bump, scratch, scrape and bruise for the siblings is noteworthy, and the whole family works to avoid germs. A simple cough or cold could be devastating, so they're all in tune to notice illness.They're very aware of the importance of handwashing and staying home if ill. Chris said during cold and flu season, they often come in, shower and change clothes before interacting with the others.

Ellen said they respect people who choose not to vaccinate, but all of her children have been vaccinated because measles or chicken pox can kill someone with FA.

All the children home school to help prevent illness. When James Christopher was diagnosed, doctors said it could help him live longer. Chris said all four have excelled fromthe one-on-one time, and they've enjoyed getting to know other families inthe Christian Homeschool Association.

The Allums know their lives are different than those of many other families, but they are running their own race.

"I have to tell you that we have a wonderful life. Sure it's full of hard work, but it's wonderful because of what the Lord has done with it," Chris said.

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Joy in the journey

The couple did their homework on hospitals that specialize in the disease and settled on Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital's cancer center in New York. It had the best survival rates, and they've been going for 12 years.

James Christopher's and Elizabeth's immunity is low, the family cannot travel with the general public. They either have to make the almost 20-hour drive or arrange for a private plane. Ellen said they've had to go there, at times, every three to six months.

The whole family travels to medical appointments.

"Although they don't have the disease, they go through it with them," Ellen said of Jon Thomas and Caroline. She said all of her children have gone to hospitals and played with and prayed for children were facing terminal diagnoses. It's been a blessing to them and a ministry to others.

James Christopher said they try to find fun in the journey. Ellen said they do something fun every time they go to the hospital and embrace John 10:10Jesus came that we might have life and have it abundantly.

James Christopher Allums, 20, holds his sister Elizabeth Allums, 3. The siblings both have a rare medical condition called Fanconi anemia.(Photo: Courtesy)

What happens if there's a match?

"We would be moving to New York for six to eight months for the bone marrow transplant," Ellen said.

Ellen said the a bone marrow recipient with FA will have to go through chemotheraphy for two weeks to kill off the patient's natural bone marrow.

"When the cells are dead, then they receive someone else's bone marrow. It's a liquid, it looks just like an IV, and they lie there and you just pray to God that it's going to take," she said.

After the transplant, the patient is in isolation for 30-40 days. They stay at the transplant hospital for six to eight months and keep a medical mask on for one year. Chris said you hope graph vs. host disease isn't an issue.

Saving lives

She said she used to look at missions that dig wells in other countries and wish they could go save lives, but, after prayer, she realized they are saving people. With the help of family and friends, efforts to add bone marrow donors have helped dozens of people.

"I like to tell people 'You could be the reason someone lives.' ... And I think those words are pretty powerful" Ellen said.

She said the process to donate blood stem cells, which is the most common donation method, involves a needle in each arm for four to six hours.

"It's not even a surgery. It's not like giving a kidney or a lung or a heart, even, but the benefits are that strong. It can truly save a life, but yet all you have to do is like giving blood," Ellen said.

To test for a match, she said, it's even less of a commitment. It takes about five minutes to fill out paperwork and provide a swap from inside the cheek. Anyone 18-55 in good health can register.

The community has come together to help organize a drive for May 1, National Fanconi Anemia Day. A massive drive will take place at more than a dozen locations across northeastern Louisiana, and CenturyLink will be registering employees on-site.Anyone anywhere can order testing kitsonline atdkms.orgorbethematch.org.

A month after testing, people will get a phone call to confirm their position on the registry. Ellen said they pray people will make the commitment.Previous drives for the Allumshave set national records for most registered in one day. Over three days, they tested 5,000 people.

"When people come, we want to educate them on the processin hopes thatwhetherthey are a match in a month or a match in 20 yearsthat they will be committed to beingon that registry to help somebody," Chris said.

They heard of a woman who registered with her family at a previous event andlater developed leukemia. Her sister was found as an instant bone marrow match because theyalreadyhad been tested.

Ellen and Chris said knowing that 41 lives were saved as a result of their family'sefforts makes it all worth it, even though it hasn't been easy.

"But we believe that God is going to heal them both because He told us He would, and we believe that. We hold on to those promises of God. ... and we focus on that. That gives us strength," Ellen said.

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Want to register?

May 1 is National Fanconi Anemia Day, and a more than a dozen locations across northeastern Louisiana will be part of a single registration drive. Times vary and new locations may be added. Check The Friends of James Christopher and Elizabeth Allumson Facebook or visitcaringbridge.organd searchJames Christopher Allums.

Or order a testing kit online at dkms.org or bethematch.org.

Testing sites and times are:

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